Would it be silly if were to get upset over my boyfriend watching porn?

Ask yourself if you are feeling threatened by this. Do you feel that by watching porn your bf is "cheating"? Realize that among other things he may pick up some imaginative ideas and the result will be a happier and more active sex life for the two of you. But really, how do you feel his watching porn is affecting your relationship...other than it seems to bother you? Do you feel he has changed in any way form the way he was when you began going together? Do you notice any change in his attitude toward you, in the way he treats you, in how he is with others? If you feel that he is still the same wonderful fellow you have always enjoyed, then there really wouldn't be any problem. If you feel he has changed in a way you don't appreciate, AND you are sure that the change came about BECAUSE he is watching porn, then have a talk with him and explain your concerns. He should be willing to discuss the subject. But only if you feel there have been changes that you don't like.